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Be Your Own Life Coach: Life Coaching - Success Success is always within your grasp and is attainable with just a little effort applied in the right direction. Everyone aspires to be successful but only a few people spend time considering what success means to them.
Be a Great Flirt: Body language Body language is the key to flirting. Use it to give signals and learn to read the signals that people are sending.
Be a Great Flirt: Reading the signals The most important flirting signal comes from eye contact. The trouble is, men often miss the moment because they tend to scan a woman from the feet up, so they reach her face last, by which time she may have lost interest.
Be a Great Flirt: Flirting myths The biggest flirting myth of all is that men do the choosing. It has always been the woman who chooses, and it still is. A man has to wait until he receives the green light from a woman and then he takes over – it’s his job to make the first move, start the conversation, get contact details and arrange a date.
Be a Great Flirt: Chat-up lines Corny chat-up lines (‘Do you come here often?’) don’t work, and neither do over-the-top ones (‘Did you fall to earth from heaven?’). Keep your opening remark neutral – something about the weather (‘Better day today…’) or something about the situation (‘They should reschedule this train – it always runs ten minutes late’).
Be a Great Flirt: Attraction The basis of almost all attraction is similarity. Studies show that people are attracted to people who are similar to them and they tend to have longer, more successful relationships.
Be a Great Flirt: Getting a date Once you have broken the ice and spent some time flirting, it’s time to move on and get a date. It’s the man’s job to do this and his aim should be to get the woman’s contact details so that he can set up the date. The woman’s job is to signal absolutely clearly that she is interested, otherwise he might take fright and never ask for the date.
Be a Great Flirt: Dealing with rejection A tough rejection can really sting you for days afterwards. If it was from someone you fancied, the temptation is to run over it in your head, talking to yourself about where it went wrong, and then you are just re-living the pain over and over again.
Be a Great Flirt: Top flirting tips for women Basic flirting rules are that women do the choosing, but once they have signalled their choice they sit back and let the man make the move.
Be a Great Flirt: Top flirting tips for men Basic flirting rules are that the woman does the choosing, but once she has signalled her choice she sits back and lets the man make the move. A woman signals her choice by making eye contact. Doing this once is an orange light, twice is a green light. Don’t miss the moment by focusing too hard on her body – look at her face so you catch the eye contact.
Be a Great Flirt: Flirting techniques The most powerful flirting tool of all is listening. Most people think they are good listeners but very few of us really are. People love to talk about themselves – it makes them feel special and cared for – so give the person you’re flirting with your whole attention.
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