As a father, you'll be your child's principal male role model, and fundamental in forming the type of person they'll become. So consider carefully the values you're demonstrating in your every action.

Given the chance, you're no less capable than your partner in caring for your child, and your contribution is of crucial and distinct importance. So take every opportunity to be actively involved as much as possible, right from the start.

A large part of your role, especially early on, will be to support your partner in any way you can. No one is better placed or better equipped to offer her the comfort and reassurance she'll need.

Don't be timid in your dealings with health professionals – if you're ever concerned about something or in doubt, ask.

There's no one right way to raise a child. Sift through the mass of advice and apply a little common sense in taking whatever works for you.

Be practical about your finances – recognize the difference between want and need, and communicate with your partner.

Discipline should be founded on love, and is about the enforcing of clear and consistent boundaries established for your child's benefit, not yours.

Parenting can be tough, so be forgiving of yourself and your partner.

You will be tired, physically and emotionally, but you'll also surprise yourself with strengths you never knew you had.

As much as you'll want to protect them, your child has to live in the real world, so be wary of bolstering them with false praise, or sheltering them from failure.

Avoid the temptation to compare your child's development to others' – most children progress at hugely varying rates but soon end up much the same.

There are few jobs on this earth more important than raising a child, so it's natural to be apprehensive. But there are few jobs that can offer so much in return.