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Motivate Yourself and Reach Your Goals: Goal setting and skills-building success

by Francis Coombes

Use NLP strategies for setting goals when you undertake new projects.

Decide what you want - (know your outcome at the start of the project)
Do something – (take an action)
Notice what happens when you take the action – (become acutely aware of what is going on)
Be flexible - (if what you’re doing isn’t working do something else. Be prepared to change your behaviour until you get your goal.)
Take action– an idea is only a notion, unless an action follows. Use strategies for successful goal-setting regularly in order to instil habits of reaching your goals. (Chapter 8 – The power of setting goals, Chapter 15 – Strengthen your completion drive)

When you set increasingly more challenging goals then inevitably you will require additional skills. Many people can become ‘blocked’ and give up trying at this stage. It is important that you stay focused, because ‘Most people are only five or six skills away from achieving the successes they want in life’ says Robert Kiyosaki author of the multi-million pound New York best seller, ‘Rich Dad, Poor Dad’.

NLP has some brilliant techniques for identifying and modelling the strategies used by successful people. Learn to model specifically what they do, it will give you extra leverage to succeed. (Chapter 13 – Model success strategies)


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