by Sam van Rood
The most important flirting signal comes from eye contact. The trouble is, men often miss the moment because they tend to scan a woman from the feet up, so they reach her face last, by which time she may have lost interest.
Men need to focus more on women’s faces, and women need wait until the man is looking at her before giving eye contact. Then hold it for three seconds.
Eye contact is often given twice, the first time is an orange light and the second is a green light, although any sort of eye contact is an encouragement.
Learn to monitor body language, using your peripheral vision – you will see if the other person is checking you out. When someone fancies you, they look at your lips as well as your eyes, they mirror your body language, their feet will point towards you, they raise their eyebrows and above all they make eye contact.
Red light signals, where the person isn’t interested, include turning away from you and refusing to make eye contact by looking the other way.
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